Jamal Lundy

A guy I have not spoken to in 25 years, we were never close, and I had no idea what was coming my way. Jamal Lundy was a 4-year starter in football at UConn. A dominant player, he was quiet and led by example.

Overcoming adversity at a very young age, he lost his dad at 8 years old and his mother soon after. Jamal witnessed his grandfather die in front of him at 17 years old and spiritual guidance helped him.

Recruited by many schools, he wanted a full scholarship and a chance to play in the NFL. Randy Edsall and Mike Toop recruited Jamal and he became a top player. As a freshman, he started a few games in and never looked back. One of the few who started a game in all 4 years of his career.

Making All ECAC, Jamal signed with an agent and had aspirations of playing in the NFL. He trained all winter and waited on a call during draft day that never came. Depressed, frustrated, Jamal worked hard and chased the dream, he fell short as most of us do.

Not know what to do with the rest of his life, Jamal found a career in the military. He excelled, stood out because of his work ethic. His only regret was getting married, at 31, he wanted kids and felt time was running out.

After 6 years of marriage, Jamal finally got divorced. He met the love of his life and after 2 years of dating, walked the isle again. He has 2 kids with his first wife, his current wife has 4 kids from her first marriage, Jamal and his wife now have 2 kids of their own. He also helped raise his brothers kid after he died.

It was really special to see a smile on Jamal's face. He was cooking Ox tail for dinner. Jamal built a tremendous career in the military and is a wonderful family man, dedicated father. Never choose a permanent solution for a temporary problem. Words of Wisdom.